Sunday, January 29, 2012

Book Review: Night Road by Kristin Hannah

I just finished reading Night Road, a novel I wanted to purchase at our school book fair last week, but decided to download on my Kindle Friday afternoon, as I was out of reading material for the weekend.

From the cover: For eighteen years, Jude Farraday has put her childrens needs above her own, and it shows - her twins, Mia and Zach, are bright and happy teenagers. When Lexi Baill moves into their small, close-knit community, no one is more welcoming than Jude. Lexi, a former foster child with a dark past, quickly becomes Mias best friend. Then Zach falls in love with Lexi and the three become inseparable. Jude does everything to keep her kids on track for college and out of harms way. It has always been easy - until senior year of high school. Suddenly she is at a loss. Nothing feels safe anymore; every time Mia and Zach leave the house, she worries about them. On a hot summers night her worst fears are realized. One decision will change the course of their lives. In the blink of an eye, the Farraday family will be torn apart and Lexi will lose everything. In the years that follow, each must face the consequences of that single night and find a way to forget... or the courage to forgive.Vivid, universal, and emotionally complex, Night Road raises profound questions about motherhood, identity, love, and forgiveness. It is a luminous, heartbreaking novel that captures both the exquisite pain of loss and the stunning power of hope. This is Kristin Hannah at her very best, telling an unforgettable story about the longing for family, the resilience of the human heart, and the courage it takes to forgive the people we love.

I have to say, this book is by far one of the best I've read in quite some time. The characters were bright and believable, and the story held me completely captivated from Friday afternoon all the way until Saturday evening. I would have finished it much earlier, but I had to put it down a few times to attend my son's basketball tournament! The story is told from three points-of-view, which makes it a little different from the typical first-person narration. Throughout the course of the novel, I found myself moved from laughter to tears on more than one occasion, as my heart broke time and again for Lexi and her seemingly hopeless situation. I was angered at Jude for her controlling nature, her bitterness, and for abadoning her family when they needed her the most, and I completely empathized with Mia- the awkward, book-loving, Disney-singing teen in a tutu and Converse All-Stars. Unfortunately, I didn't feel like Hannah developed Zach- the character at the center of the plot, which made it hard to connect to his emotions or his part in the novel. I wanted to know what he was thinking, what he was feeling, and what it was he really wanted.

If I had to pick something that I didn't like about the novel, it would be Jude's relationship (or lack thereof) with her mother. I was really hoping after all the tragedy and heartbreak, she would reach out more to her mother, reconnecting and rediscovering the love that had been lost. I wanted Jude to come full circle in her role as both mother and daughter, and was disappointed when the novel ended with just a hint of a reconnection between the two.

Overall, I absolutely loved this story, and I'd highly recommend it to the majority of my book-loving friends. I haven't checked yet to see if it's lendable or not, but I do know its available at our middle school book fair!

Sunday Stealing: The 99'er Meme Part One

Cheers to all of us thieves!

1) Put your iTunes on shuffle. Give me the first 6 songs that pop up.
1. Give Me Everything by Pitbull
2. Dirt Road Anthem by Jason Aldean
3. Piano Man by Billy Joel
4. California King Bed by Rhianna
5. Born This Way by Lady Gaga
6. Red Solo Cup by Toby Keith

2) If you could meet anyone on this earth, who would it be?
Mark Teixeira

3) Grab the book nearest to you, turn to page 23, give me line 17.
"Mia began talking slowly, stumbling over her words, but when she started talking about Heathcliff, she kind of took flight."
- Night Road by Kristin Hannah

4) What do you think about most?
Things that I should be doing.

5) What does your latest text message from someone else say?
"Ha ha ha" from Chelsea Roberts

6) Do you sleep with or without clothes on?
Jammies!

7) What's your strangest talent?
I have a ridiculously precise memory...and I can bend my thumb backward.

8) Women.... (finish the sentence); Men.... (finish the sentence)
Women need shoes. Men should buy women shoes.

9) Ever had a poem or song written about you?
Only one song that I know of, and it was pretty cheesey. One brief poem...
Amy, Amy, Amy,
Won't you lay-me, lay-me, lay-me.

10) When is the last time you played the air guitar?
In class on Friday...right before I sang a verse of the milkshake song. Don't ask.

11) Do you have any strange phobias?
Crunchy bugs. Can't stand them. This includes, but is not limited to: grasshoppers, locusts, and june bugs.

12) Ever stuck a foreign object up your nose?
A tampoon once..to stop a nosebleed. It's amazing how effective they are!

13) What's your religion?
Christian

14) If you are outside, what are you most likely doing?
Sitting on the sand, sipping a cold one.

15) Do you prefer to be behind the camera or in front of it?
Behind. I am NOT photogenic!

16) Simple but extremely complex. Favorite band?
U2

17) What was the last lie you told?
Not really sure...I'll have to think about that one.

18) Do you believe in karma?
No, I just generally believe in really bad luck.

19) What does your URL mean?
It's pretty self-explanatory.

20) What is your greatest weakness; your greatest strength?
Greatest weakness - lack of patience
Greatest strength - I'm a really good speller??

21) Who is your celebrity crush?
Must we continue to go there??? Chris Pine

22) Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
Yep.

23) How do you vent your anger?
Usually by eating or popping a couple of extra wellbutrin!

24) Do you have a collection of anything?
I have a huge collection of worthless jewelry, books, Tinkerbell things, shoes, and Hello Kitty items. I also am a bit of a gizmo-hoarder!

25) Do you prefer talking on the phone or video chatting online?
Ugh, neither. Texting is the only way to go!

Sunday, January 22, 2012

So Long, Brown-Eyed Girl

It's been a pretty sad weekend in the Whitewater household, as we had to say good-bye to our smallest family member, our 8 year-old lab mix, Shanti. My husband rescued Shanti from the pound when she was about seven months old, and she's been with us every since. We actually adopted her the week before we moved into our current house, so to not have her here is going to be a huge adjustment for us.

We're not really sure what happened - I came home Friday afternoon to find that she'd had an accident in the house (which NEVER happens), and she was extremely lethargic. We made a rush trip to the vet's office and were told she had some type of infection and that "something" was attacking and destroying her red blood cells...a life-threatening situation. After some of shots, instructions to keep her fed and hydrated, a couple of bottles of antibiotics, and instructions to have her back at the office first thing Monday morning for a transfusion, we headed home. She was lethargic, but functional Friday night, but by Saturday morning, it was obvious her condition was deteriorating quickly. She would't eat or drink, and she didn't have the strength to get up and move about. Needless to say, it was a long, heartbreaking day, and despite our best attempts to keep her going until Monday, we lost her that evening.

I'm usually annoyed with people who treat their pets like children (or often better than their children), and we didn't treat Shanti that way. She was our beloved pet - a member of our family- and we loved her as such. Despite her large size, she was an indoor dog and we took her with us whenever we could. She had a darling, sweet, loving, gentle disposition that I cannot imagine ever finding in another creature - or in another human to be quite honest. The little beast was able to turn even my cold, cynical, sarcastic heart to mush over the past few years. She loved us completely, totally, and unconditionally.

They don't write obituaries for dogs, but maybe they should. In any case, this is my blog, and I think she deserves at least a paragraph or two...

Shanti Alan Whitewater
2003-2012
Shanti was the very beloved pet of the Whitewater family. Adopted from the pound at less than a year old, she lived with her people all her life, chasing squirrels and digging holes in the backyard. Shanti was loved by everyone who met her - at the soccer games, kids flocked to her to rub her ears or to feed her Twinkies. When children came over to play, she was happy to indulge them in a game of tug-of-war, or to show-off her array of fabulous tricks. She helped in the kitchen by cleaning-up all the leftovers, and she served as "guard dog" for the home when Clint was working overnights. She even accompanied me to school several evenings when I was afraid to be there alone...although I had to lure her up and back down the stairs with treats! Shanti loved to go to the lake, camping with her family, walking around the neighborhood, and riding in the Jeep with the top down and her tongue flopping about. She greeted everyone at the door with a friendly body-wag (it was impossible for her to JUST wag her tail), and she even managed to capture the heart of the neighborhood mailman.

Shanti was the mother of 27 puppies, protector and friend to Dylan and Dawson, and the brown-eyed baby girl for Clint and myself. The last thing she did completely on her own was to follow us to bed Friday evening so that she could spend one last night by our side. We shared eight precious years with her, and our lives are better for having had her with us.

So, it's time to say so long to my brown-eyed girl. You have taken a huge piece of hearts with you, and our lives won't be the same without you. I hope you are somewhere in Heaven chowing on a gigantic chew bone and tormenting those pesky squirrels who annoyed you so much. We love you and will miss you always.


The Never Ending Meme - Ends!

Cheers to all of us thieves!
36. Have you watched American Horror Story?
Not necessary, I teach middle school. I live it every day.

37. Baseball hat or toque?
Baseball hat.

38. Do you shampoo or soap up first in the shower?
Shampoo

39. Wet the toothbrush or brush dry with the toothpaste?
Ugh, wet is always better.

40. Pen or pencil?
Pen - in pink, of course.

41. Have you ever gambled at a casino?
Absolutely...but only on the nickel machines. I hate to lose money.

42. Have you thrown up on a plane?
Ugh, no.

43. Have you thrown up in a car?
On a car...

44. Have you thrown up at work?
Yes, and I don't recommend it. They called me "Patty Puker" for a week.

45. Do you scream on roller coasters?
Sometimes.

46. How many shoes do you have?
Now you just sound like my husband!

47. Who was your first roommate?
Some crazy Catholic school chick from Ponca City who went bat sh*t crazy when she got to college.

48. What alcoholic beverage did you drink when you got drunk for the first time?
Champagne...and I don't recommend it.

49. What was your first job?
Babysitting.

50. What was your first car?
A wretched blue Ford Mustang...ah, the memories!!

51. When did you go to your first funeral?
When I was very little. I don't remember much about it.

52. How old were you when you first moved away from your hometown?
18!! Moved to college at OU.

53. Who was your first grade teacher?
Mrs. Lynch. She made us say the Lord's Prayer every day. I wonder how that would go over these days?

54. Where did you go on your first airplane ride?
Madison, Wisconsin!!

55. When you snuck out of your house for the first time, who was it with?
I'm going to plead the fifth on this one.

56. Who was your first best friend and are you still friends with them?
Ashley Elwood was my first BFF. We aren't close, but we still see each other every now and then. Her dad and mine work together, and our families are friends.

57. Where did you live the first time you moved out of your parents’ house?
1024 East Walker Tower....at THE University of Oklahoma!

58. Who is the first person you call when you have a bad day?
My husband...because he loves to listen to me whine. Unless of course it's his fault my day is bad...then I rant about it on Facebook!!

59. Whose wedding were you in the first time you were a bridesmaid or a groomsmen?
I was a bridesmaid in my cousin's wedding when I was 25.

60. What is the first thing you do in the morning?
Weigh myself...and then cry.

61. What was the first concert you attended?
Sammy Hagar!!

62. First tattoo or piercing?
Had my ears pierced the first time when I was about five (I think)...first tattoo at 27.

63. First celebrity crush?
Ricky Schroeder!! Loved Silver Spoons!! :)

Sunday, January 15, 2012

The Never Ending Meme - Part 2

A certain blogger friend has been nagging at me because I've all but let my blog die since school started, so I figured I'd jump right back in with something easy - Sunday Stealing!!

Cheers to us thieves!!

21. Did you go to your high school prom?
Mine and those of several other people. I think four or five in total.

22. Perfect time to wake up?
Just after the husband has cooked breakfast!

23. Perfect time to go to bed?
Right after finishing a good chapter in an excellent book!

24. Do you use your queen right away in chess?
You're joking, right?? I've never played a game of chess in my life. I can hardly win at tic-tac-toe. Besides, queens are for drag shows.

25. Ever been in a car accident?
More than I care to remember. I was actually in one with the aforementioned blogger friend...

26. Closer to mom or dad…or neither?
Both in different ways.

27. What age is this exciting life over for you?
My life is exciting?

28. What decade during the 20th century would you have chosen to be a teenager?
I was a teen during the late 80's/early 90's, which was pretty grand. I can't imagine being a teenager without enormous shoulder pads, hoop earrings, and Doc Marten boots.

29. Favorite shoes you have EVER owned?
I love all my shoes equally. How dare you suggest I love any one pair more than the others. Scandalous.

30. Do you have an article of clothing you have had since you were in high school?
I still have some Re Dinks shirts...maybe a Cats shirt that I got when I was a junior, and a homecoming t-shirt from 1992!

31. Were you in track and field?
Track and field ranks right up there with chess in my book. Pointless.

32. Were you ever in a school talent show?
Not as a student. I did perform as Snooki at the Fall Follies this past November. A priceless performance if I do say so myself. I was very Jerseylicious.

33. Have you ever written in a library book?
I've never written in one, but once when I was little I decided the illustrations in one weren't good enough, so I gave it a crayola-crayon makeover.

34. Allergic to?
Penicillin and conservatives.

35. Favorite fruit?
My friend, David.